Saturday, November 12, 2011

Don't know what to say to someone with cancer? - Sacramento Living - Sacramento Food and Wine, Home, Health | Sacramento Bee

Cancer is a tough topic, but one most everyone confronts at some time or another. But what is proper "cancer etiquette?" The Cancer Treatment Centers of America say everyone is different, and there are different approaches.

But the professionals there have come up with some basics about the subject:

-Don't ignore someone with cancer just because you don't know what to say. They advise using thoughts such as "I'm here for you," or "I love you and we'll get through this together," or even "I don't know what to say." A note saying "I'm thinking of you," also appropriate.

-Listen without interrupting. A sympathetic ear is often appreciated. Or if no one wants to talk, just sit quietly.

-Become an advocate or more effective caregiver by participating in the conversation with the doctors. Bring a list of questions.

-Act normal. Talk about other things besides cancer.

-Take care of yourself so you're in good shape emotionally and physically to offer support.

Source: http://www.sacbee.com

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